You’ve heard that your thoughts create your reality, and that you attract the things you focus on most.
And yet you’re still feeling stuck reliving the same patterns over and over again, wondering what has to change.
The problem is that you can’t see what you can’t see.
I know, because I’ve been there. I was working hard to achieve in every area of my life, and yet I was miserable. I was young, smart, and capable making a life for myself in New York City, but my friendships were rife with drama and always falling apart. I was working as a model and attractive by most standards, but my relationships were leaving me feeling used and drained.
I was supporting myself financially, and yet I was constantly losing money to thefts and crises. I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety that medication sometimes altered but never quite solved, and I was going to therapists who just let me talk around and around my issues with no practical resolution.
I didn’t know what to do – if I was so awesome, then why was I experiencing such hardship and mistreatment? Why was everything always such a struggle?