Celibacy and the Sacral Chakra

Someone on another forum asked what effect celibacy has on the sacral chakra. I wrote a long answer and thought I should share my thoughts publicly: “I spent just over a year celibate up until this summer, and even now continue to re-engage slowly and with care....

Captain’s Log, 11.24.17

I know I’m paving the way toward a healthy true love partnership but for right now can I say how grateful I am to be single rather than in an unhealthy abusive energy-draining partnership? Holy shit I have so much energy for myself. I got so much done this year....

Captain’s Log, 10.10.17

I’ve been seeing this article, The New Midlife Crisis For Women, circulate in the last few days and I want to share what was my vulnerable and uncanny reaction to it. The article describes in detail the ways our current society is set up to fail and torment...

Captain’s Log, 9.24.17

Toying with the theory that the more darkness we experience in life, the greater our capacity for joy. Most of the remarkable happy people I know in life have had very dark things happen to them at some point, and I can’t think of a person who’s never had...

Captain’s Log, 9.11.17

Today a friend posted about the phenomenon of men on Facebook who seem to only have attractive women on their friends lists. Here was my take: In my opinion this really comes down to being a symptom of a greater issue: men want to feel entitled to women without doing...

Captain’s Log, 9.10.17

What if “God never gives you more than you can handle” actually means “You determine the speed and pace at which you grow”? Let’s assume God is You, Self, the Creator. Any pain you can’t alchemize, any lesson you can’t...