Don’t Cry To Me About Misandry

I’m seeing a lot of posts lately about combatting misandry, giving men more freedom of expression, dismantling toxic notions that all men’s sexuality is evil, etc etc. Here’s what I have to say about that: I was totally down for it under Obama....

Captain’s Log, 7.11.17

Every time you mock a survivor on your timeline, no matter how rich or superficial or trashy you deem them, another survivor sees it and has a little less faith in humanity thanks to you. Every time you mock Kim Kardashian for being robbed and held hostage, I hear...

Captain’s Log, 7.10.17

CW: sexual assault Here’s an eye-opener: A while ago I mentioned to a guy friend that I was working on feeling comfortable in my body. He replied, “What? YOU??” The implication here being that the only way I could possibly not feel comfortable in my...

Captain’s Log, 7.8.17

Are you feeling a shift of being more grounded and present in reality? Here’s what’s happening for me: In the last several weeks/months the recurring dream I’ve had for years increased dramatically in frequency. In the dream I’m in the...

Captain’s Log, 7.5.17

Emotional processing time, car accident edition: Tonight a woman ran a stop sign and t-boned my car that was driving straight along Hollywood Blvd. I was alone in the car and I’d never been in an accident of that caliber before. I didn’t really know what...

Captain’s Log, 6.29.17

As I’ve been more public about my occult and spiritual practices it’s opened me up to a lot more judgment and a lot more ways of being attacked. This is natural, but it still sucks. The other day a friend of mine posted asking for alternative wellness...