Captain’s Log, 8.9.17

So here’s a thing that happened: After my car accident, I was sent by my lawyer for chiropractic treatment. The place they sent me was horrible. In five appointments I received only one adjustment by a human person. The rest was machine treatment. They...

Captain’s Log, 8.5.17

I’ve noticed myself within the past year feeling called to tell people at times, “Please let me know if I’m ever being an asshole to you. If I’m being an asshole please let me know, or if I’m not showing up for you in a way you want...

Spindles

You guys remember how Sleeping Beauty was supposed to prick her finger on a spindle at age 16 so they banned all spindles from the kingdom? Same how Oedipus was predicted to kill his dad and marry his mom so they exiled him only for him to return and do both because...

Captain’s Log, 7.25.17

So, that guide I wrote to feminist allyship went a lil viral on Facebook. And of course I wrote it so that it could be shared publicly, because I think it’s a potentially valuable resource. And like any post based in sensible feminism that invites men to be...

A Guide For Men On How To Be Allies Online

Hey guys (straight white men in particular), I’ve been having trouble lately with feeling like I have to redirect your good intentions in feminist allyship into helpful action steps. I’m happy giving you benefit of the doubt that you really do mean well...