Don’t Cry To Me About Misandry

I’m seeing a lot of posts lately about combatting misandry, giving men more freedom of expression, dismantling toxic notions that all men’s sexuality is evil, etc etc. Here’s what I have to say about that: I was totally down for it under Obama....

Captain’s Log, 7.11.17

Every time you mock a survivor on your timeline, no matter how rich or superficial or trashy you deem them, another survivor sees it and has a little less faith in humanity thanks to you. Every time you mock Kim Kardashian for being robbed and held hostage, I hear...

Captain’s Log, 7.10.17

CW: sexual assault Here’s an eye-opener: A while ago I mentioned to a guy friend that I was working on feeling comfortable in my body. He replied, “What? YOU??” The implication here being that the only way I could possibly not feel comfortable in my...

Captain’s Log, 7.8.17

Are you feeling a shift of being more grounded and present in reality? Here’s what’s happening for me: In the last several weeks/months the recurring dream I’ve had for years increased dramatically in frequency. In the dream I’m in the...

Captain’s Log, 7.5.17

Emotional processing time, car accident edition: Tonight a woman ran a stop sign and t-boned my car that was driving straight along Hollywood Blvd. I was alone in the car and I’d never been in an accident of that caliber before. I didn’t really know what...

Captain’s Log, 6.29.17

As I’ve been more public about my occult and spiritual practices it’s opened me up to a lot more judgment and a lot more ways of being attacked. This is natural, but it still sucks. The other day a friend of mine posted asking for alternative wellness...

On Sensitivity and Trigger Warnings

So this belief that people who need trigger warnings should get over it because they’re “too sensitive.” I have news for you. About sensitivity. Densensitization is a common reaction to trauma. Put the body in unsustainably painful conditions long...

Captain’s Log, 6.27.17

A common theme that’s coming up for my clients today is the idea that something is not available to us now, not because it isn’t meant for us, but because it isn’t ready – and that if we try to move forward on it, we’re more likely to...

Peace Talks episode 6 – Grant Morrison

Peace Talks Episode 6 welcomes famed occultist, chaos magician, and comics writer Grant Morrison to discuss the current cultural climate as seen through the eyes of the occult, compassion as unity consciousness from the fifth dimension, Wonder Woman and the rise of...