The Things I Gave Up in the Name of Healing

If healing was easy, we’d all do it. I’ve often said “Everyone wants to be happy until they realize what being happy means giving up.” Our toxic beliefs are like teddy bears our inner children are holding onto, fairytales we adopted that maybe...

Don’t Call Me A Badass

Recently I’ve noticed myself recoiling when people describe me as “badass,” even though I know it’s meant to be a compliment. While I’m grateful to be thought of as bold and capable (which I think is supposed to be the root meaning of...

The Healing Process: Steps and Pitfalls

Our personal growth journeys are individual. The lessons you are called to learn, the wounds you are called to heal, will not look like everyone else’s. As a guide, I can only help you navigate the pathway, show you the obstacles that are holding you back, and...

Vlog – On Rapid Expansion

Here’s a video I made about how disorienting rapid personal growth can be even when it’s super positive and cool and everything you asked for. This is a pretty vulnerable share but I wanted to catch this moment of awkwardness because I get the feeling...

Captain’s Log, 5.4.17

Hey guys. Pretty much every woman I know or see online today is hurting. The AHCA, which just passed the House, would make being a survivor of sexual assault or domestic violence a pre-existing condition. That means a woman who’s dared to go to the hospital for...