Trauma And Leadership

Sometimes I have to remind myself that I’m both a powerful leader and also a person who realized and purged a metric fuckton of trauma in a relatively very short time and is still going through phases of separating herself from it in order to perceive the...

Removing Your Excuses

Removing your excuses is an ongoing process. Reclaiming your energy is not something you do in one sitting. The more cords to extraneous influences you cut (read: the more you stop wasting time worrying about things that don’t matter or stop putting effort into things...

Exiting The Void

I’m going through some complicated understandings of the relationship between my sexuality and trauma recently. [CN: trauma, abuse, assault, mind control] It took me a long time into adulthood before I realized that BDSM had been, for me, a way of normalizing abuse....

Lack Mentality

A brief explanation of how lack mentality keeps us in situations that don’t serve us, demonstrated by an amazing client of mine: Client: I’m afraid that if I let go of the people who aren’t showing up for me or are even being actively mean to me, then I won’t have...

Put Your Loved Ones On The Calendar

Got someone you love? PUT THEM ON THE CALENDAR. Over the past two years while I’ve been hustling the creation of albums and courses and increasing my magickal bandwidth, I’ve had a sub-optimal amount of real life contact with my friends and loved ones. I’ve been...