Captain’s Log, 9.2.17

Personal growth is challenging and humbling, and fast-tracking it can make it a harrowing experience not for the faint of heart. If you want to change fast and you’re willing to put in the work, you will be shown clearly where you’re still acting out of...

Captain’s Log, 8.22.17

I love how many of my friends are checking in with me to see how I’m feeling after my awful ex got dragged publicly. And I love the care and concern. I really do. THAT SAID. I find it hilarious anyone thinks I’d be upset. Yall. I DID THE WORK. I’ve...

Captain’s Log, 8.13.17

This morning Pamela Madsen shared a beautiful live feed lecture about contraction in expansion – that is, the fear on the way to embracing your power that you are becoming too big. I share this fear in a slightly different nuance – rather than bigness vs...

A Manifesto For My Sovereignty (And Yours)

Ceremony, 8.11.17: “I am trying to navigate the duality between: – my experience + everyone else’s experience – being gentle with myself + learning my difficult lessons so I can become better – where my needs are gifts + where my needs...

Captain’s Log, 8.9.17

So here’s a thing that happened: After my car accident, I was sent by my lawyer for chiropractic treatment. The place they sent me was horrible. In five appointments I received only one adjustment by a human person. The rest was machine treatment. They...

Captain’s Log, 8.5.17

I’ve noticed myself within the past year feeling called to tell people at times, “Please let me know if I’m ever being an asshole to you. If I’m being an asshole please let me know, or if I’m not showing up for you in a way you want...

Spindles

You guys remember how Sleeping Beauty was supposed to prick her finger on a spindle at age 16 so they banned all spindles from the kingdom? Same how Oedipus was predicted to kill his dad and marry his mom so they exiled him only for him to return and do both because...

Captain’s Log, 7.25.17

So, that guide I wrote to feminist allyship went a lil viral on Facebook. And of course I wrote it so that it could be shared publicly, because I think it’s a potentially valuable resource. And like any post based in sensible feminism that invites men to be...

A Guide For Men On How To Be Allies Online

Hey guys (straight white men in particular), I’ve been having trouble lately with feeling like I have to redirect your good intentions in feminist allyship into helpful action steps. I’m happy giving you benefit of the doubt that you really do mean well...