Trauma And Leadership

Sometimes I have to remind myself that I’m both a powerful leader and also a person who realized and purged a metric fuckton of trauma in a relatively very short time and is still going through phases of separating herself from it in order to perceive the...

Removing Your Excuses

Removing your excuses is an ongoing process. Reclaiming your energy is not something you do in one sitting. The more cords to extraneous influences you cut (read: the more you stop wasting time worrying about things that don’t matter or stop putting effort into things...

Exiting The Void

I’m going through some complicated understandings of the relationship between my sexuality and trauma recently. [CN: trauma, abuse, assault, mind control] It took me a long time into adulthood before I realized that BDSM had been, for me, a way of normalizing abuse....

Lack Mentality

A brief explanation of how lack mentality keeps us in situations that don’t serve us, demonstrated by an amazing client of mine: Client: I’m afraid that if I let go of the people who aren’t showing up for me or are even being actively mean to me, then I won’t have...

Put Your Loved Ones On The Calendar

Got someone you love? PUT THEM ON THE CALENDAR. Over the past two years while I’ve been hustling the creation of albums and courses and increasing my magickal bandwidth, I’ve had a sub-optimal amount of real life contact with my friends and loved ones. I’ve been...

Magick In Its Essence

Magick, in its essence, is the understanding that in order to get something you have to figure out how to already have it. If you can hack that, then you understand magick. The trouble is most people can’t. Most people will read that sentence and laugh....

Awkwardness and Disconnection

Sometimes I notice myself feeling an awkwardness or a disconnection when a person is spending time with me, like an anxiety or a self-consciousness, and I realize it’s because I’m afraid they’re bored or not enjoying themselves or that they’re staying with me out of...

Healing The Wounded Healer

Earlier tonight I saw someone post this statement: “I release the belief that I have to be healed in order to be able to heal others. #woundedhealer” As someone who’s practiced both before and after her own trauma healing, I’m gonna say the after is way better than...

Your Life Purpose

Your life purpose is the thing that is in your heart, that you love most. It’s probably something (or related to something) that brought you joy as a child. The correlation may not be obvious at first – part of my life purpose is in helping people repattern...

The Point Of Faith

Remember that the belief must come before the results. This is the point of faith. Being jaded is drinking your own poison. Be discerning, yes. But use your discernment to orient yourself toward your desire. Jadedness is believing it doesn’t exist. Discernment is...