Captain’s Log, 5.26.18

This came through today: Jesus Christ did not die for our sins. He died because they killed him, because he threatened the existing establishment. It was never necessary for Christ to die for us to be free. As he himself preached, “the kingdom of heaven is upon...

Captain’s Log, 5.19.18

The short answer to all the cishet white men who believe that women and POC expressing anger means they are still in victim consciousness, aka my answer to two awful white men on a thread this morning even though it’s Saturday and I just woke up: “Yall on...

Captain’s Log, 5.11.18

I know this is going to sound crazy at the moment but I’d really love to teach seduction again one day. Bear with me. I don’t want to teach pickup. And I don’t want to teach seduction to anyone who hasn’t solved their issues, which means MAYBE...

Captain’s Log, 5.4.18

Pretty funny how to even stay at the table these days it feels like you need to keep creating and creating. It’s not a bad deal really, because I love creating. But sometimes I feel like I’m moving so fast that I fail to appreciate everything I’ve...

New Business Cards

My new business cards. I realized I should probably unpack what these self-appointed titles mean to me, as they were chosen very deliberately. Emotional artisan: Perhaps you’ve heard of the concept of emotional labor, defined as “the effort that goes into...

Captain’s Log, 4.25.18

PSA: If you are a service provider of any kind, it is YOUR JOB to set your boundaries around your work. It is not your clients’ job to intuit them. It is YOUR JOB to determine what you are offering, how much it costs, what is included, and how long the container...

The Re-Patterning Project

I wasn’t depressed; there was a flaw in my operating system. For years I had visited therapists, psychiatrists, social workers, psychological evaluators, and none of them seemed to know what was wrong with me besides “depression” and...